Story Behind The Song
An unfaithful lover is a common theme to too many people. I have had a few cads of my own but have also witnessed many friends spin out of control while in the storm of confusion caused by the rejection. The selfishness of the one who feels powerless to resist the new lover. All the spin that gets put on 'conversations from the heart'. The 'truth' is the last thing you'll hear. The fact is that it'll happen again and again.
Song Description
She has her life back and looking back sees his life as calm and wonders when he's going to stir it up again. He doesn't do the simple happy life. She know that. He is a victim of passion and addicted to the struggle caused by his actions. She hears of his latest antics through friends and can't believe that the new woman in his life can't see through it. She is left with all the questions that remain at the end of a relationship and wonders who, where, what and why. Still she wants to know. Now that he's living with the woman who used to be his bit on the side, who will he get to be his bit on the side now?
Song Length |
3:51 |
Genre |
Latin - Tango, Jazz - Lounge |
Tempo |
Medium Slow (91 - 110) |
Lead Vocal |
Female Vocal |
Mood |
Incensed, Cool |
Subject |
Frustration, Suspicion |
Similar Artists |
Annie Lennox, Carrie Underwood |
Language |
English |
Era |
2000 and later |
| |
Lyrics
BIT ON THE SIDE
chorus: Now that you're living with your bit on the side
Who will your bit on the side be now?
Now it's in the open and there's nothing to hide
Who will you bit on the side be now
I know you're addicted to your suffering heart
A victim of your passion
With nothing tearing you apart
Time to get a new obsession
Oh, all I want to know (chorus)
I'm grateful thoughts of you grow distant but everyday
Well meaning friends call up to say
Little things you've said and done
Good God does she still think she's the only one ?
Oh, all I want to know (chorus, inst, chorus, verse 1)
What have you done ?
Where did you go ?
Who have we become ?
How could I know ?
(verse 1, chorus)
Who will your bit on the side be now ?
Who will your bit on the side be now ?